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SPEAKER “Putting ‘Relate’ back into Relationships – Get Social” Date: February 4th, 2015 Redondo Beach, CA

Speaker “SOCIAL SANITY – Keeping Social in a Media Driven World” Lotus Conference Date: February 19th, 2015 Time:  6:00p.m.-8:00p.m. Phoenix, AZ MORE INFO

Speaker “Get Social” Lotus Conference Dates: March 6th-7th, 2015 Times TBD Sundance, UT LOTUS – MORE INFO HERE!

SPEAKER/BOOK SIGNING “THE COUPLES WHO ROCK” EVENT The Marriage Movement Sunday, March 15th, 2015 Time TBD CROWNE PLAZA, Los Angeles International Airport 5985 W. Century Blvd., Los Angeles, CA  90045 The Marriage Movement Website

SPEAKER “GET SOCIAL” Details Coming Soon! Date: April 2nd, 2015 Time:  6:00-8:00p.m. LAGUNA NIGUEL, CA MORE INFO

SPEAKER“Social Sanity” Life Transition Group Thursday, April 9th, 2015 12:00p.m.-2:00p.m. Los Angeles PRIVATE EVENT

SPEAKER“GET SOCIAL” Details Coming Soon! Date: April 14th, 2015 Time:  6:00-8:00p.m. BEVERLY HILLS, CA MORE INFO

SPEAKER “Putting ‘Relate’ back into Relationships – GET SOCIAL” Details Coming Soon! Date: April 29th, 2015 Time:  TBD Santa Monica, CA MORE INFO

TRAINER – 5-DAY WORKSHOP “Putting ‘RELATE’ back into RELATIONSHIPS” Unitarian Universalist Church of Ventura Dates TBD, 2015 Times TBD Ventura, CA OPEN TO THE PUBLIC

BOOK SIGNING GOLD Trail Natural Foods, Date TBD  Dates TBD, 2015 Times TBD 625 S. State Highway 49 Jackson, CA  95642 209-223-1896 Thank you Marvin!

BOOK SIGNING BARNES AND NOBLE, In Ventura, CA – 2 NIGHTS December 4th 8p.m.-close and 5th, 2014 5p.m.-8p.m. 4820 Telephone Rd, Ventura, CA 93003   Get your autographed copy and help support Fillmore Christian Academy’s annual fundraiser. A % of every book purchased will be donated to FCA. (805) 339-0990

Life by Design 90-Day Intensive – Relationship Coach/Speaker COMPLETE Please email for more information or for possible cancellations. GET SOCIAL SYMPOSIUM Speaker COMPLETE 12:00p.m.- 1:30p.m. 107 Nelson Street Arroyo Grande, CA  93420

Wednesday, December 4th, 2013  (Book Signing/Author Discussion – oh and a little dinner and wine!) 5:30p.m.-7:30p.m. LUCIA’S WINE CO. 125 East Clark Avenue Orcutt, CA 805-332-3080 Thank you Ben & Lucy Gonzales!

Thursday, December 5, 2013  (Book Signing & Wine Tasting) 4p.m.-6p.m. CORE Wine Company (OLD TOWN ORCUTT) 145 S. Gray St. Ste 103 (cross street Clark) Orcutt, CA  93455 805.937.1600 CORE wine company Thank you Becky and Dave Corey! Friday, December 6, 2013  

6p.m. – 9p.m. PRIVATE EVENT THE LEGACY PARTNERS CHRISTMAS PARTY 107 Nelson Street Arroyo Grande, CA  93420 805-748-6873 The Core Financial Group Thank you Jeff Forrest of The Core Financial Group

Saturday, December 7, 2013  (Book Signing)  2:00p.m.-5:00p.m. THE BOOKWORM, Santa Maria 230K East Betteravia (Near Pier 1 Imports) Santa Maria, CA  93455 805-922-4282 Book Worm, Santa Maria Thank you Darin and Beckie! Saturday, December 7, 2013  (Book Signing & Author Discussion) 

5:30p.m. – 7:30p.m. Ca’ Del Grevino Cafe & Wine Bar (OLD TOWN ORCUTT) 400 E Clark Ave Orcutt, CA  93455 805-937-6400 Thank you Dave! Wednesday, December 11, 2013 (Book Signing & a little wine! LADIES SHOPPING NIGHT!)

5:00p.m.-7:00p.m.  COSTA DE ORO 1331 S. Nicholson Ave Santa Maria, CA  93454 805-922-1468 COSTA DE ORO WINERY This is Costa De Oro’s annual Ladies Christmas Shopping event!  Guests will offer everything from jewelry and purses to candles and hand massages.  Enjoy a glass of wine while you shop with friends and get your copies of Spelling It Out for Your Man signed for you and your friends.  Great holiday gifts! Thank you!

Sunday, December 15, 2013 (Book Signing!) 4:00p.m.-6:00p.m.  San Luis Obispo Law of Attraction Meetup Please See Meetup Invite for Details! (Search “San Luis Obispo Law of Attraction Meetup Group”) San Luis Obispo, CA Thank you Hilary Anderson!

Tuesday, December 17, 2013 (Book Signing & a little wine!) 5:00p.m.-7:00p.m.  THE WINE RACK 14 S. California Street Ventura, CA  93001 805-653-9463 The Wine Rack Thank you Darci Kole!

Wednesday, December 18, 2013 (Book Signing & a little wine!) 5:00p.m.-7:00p.m.  WINE CLOSET (Old Town Camarillo) 2423 Ventura Blvd Camarillo, CA  93010 805-383-9812 Wine Closet Thank you Linda Hunter!

Saturday, December 21, 2013 (Book Signing/Author Discussion) 1:00p.m.-3:00p.m.  BANK OF BOOKS 748 E Main Street Ventura, CA  93001 805-643-3154 Bank of Books Thank you John!

Sunday, December 22, 2013 (Book Signing/Author Discussion – and of course hot coffee!) 3:00p.m.-5:00p.m.  BOHEMIA COFFEE HOUSE 214 W. Ojai Ave Ojai, CA  93023 805-640-7210 Bohemia Coffee House Thank you Shawn Braley!

Monday, December 23, 2013 (Book Signing/Author Discussion – and of course hot coffee!) 1:00p.m.-3:00p.m.  ELEMENT COFFEE  2364 Ventura Blvd Camarillo, CA  93010 Element Coffee Thank you!!!

Saturday, January 18, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing/ART Show) 6:00p.m. – 9:00p.m. Fox Fine Jewelry 210 E. Main Street Ventura, CA  (Downtown across from the Mission) Thank you Debbie!

Thursday, February 6, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 5:00p.m.-8:00p.m. Carr Winery 414 N. Salsipuedes St Santa Barbara, CA  93103 Carr Vineyards & Winery Thank you Jennifer!

Friday, February 7, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 6:00p.m.-8:00p.m. Four Brix Winery & Tasting Room 2290 Eastman Ave Ventura, CA  93003 Four Brix Winery Thank you Karen!

Wednesday, February 12, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 11:00a.m.-1:00p.m. Santa Barbara City College 721 Cliff Drive Santa Barbara, CA  93109 The Channels Thank you Kathy Stein and Joan Galvan!

Saturday, February 15, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 4:00p.m.-6:00p.m. JOIN US IN MALIBU Cornell Winery & Tasting Room 29975 Mulholland Hwy Agoura Hills (Malibu), CA  91301 Cornell Winery Thank you Tim!

Saturday, February 22, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 1p.m.-3p.m. MRS. FIGS’ BOOKWORM, Camarillo 93 East Daily Drive Camarillo, CA  93010 805-482-1384 Mrs. Fig’s Bookworm Thank you Connie & Steve Halpern!

Sunday, February 23, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 5p.m.-7p.m. Vinoteque on Melrose 7469 Melrose Ave Los Angeles, CA  90046 310-860-6060 VINOTEQUE on MELROSE Thank you so much! 

Thursday, February 27, 2014,  (Author Discussion & Book Signing) 4:30p.m.-6:30p.m. JOIN US IN T.O. The Wineyard 1948 E Thousand Oaks Blvd Thousand Oaks, CA  91362 THE WINEYARD Thank you Stacey & Lisa!

Saturday, March 22, 2014 (Book Signing) 1p.m. – 3p.m. Giessinger By The Beach (Santa Barbara) 210 State Street Santa Barbara, CA  93101 Giessinger Winery 805-568-0820 Thank you Edouard!

Saturday, March 29, 2014 (Book Signing) 1p.m. – 3p.m. Giessinger Winery (Fillmore Tasting Room) 365 Santa Clara Street Fillmore, CA  93015 Giessinger Winery 805-524-5000 Thank you Edouard!

Sat-Sun, April 5-6, 2014 (Guest Speaker/Book Signing) 12:00p.m. Main Stage – April 5th (Putting RELATE back in Your RELATIONSHIP) Booth #507 for Book Signings, April 5th and 6th ULTIMATE WOMEN’S EXPO – HOUSTON Houston Reliant Center Houston, Texas Thank you Janice Johnson!

Thursday,  April 24, 2014 (Book Signing) 7p.m. – 8:30p.m. Changing Hands Bookstore (Tempe, AZ) 6428 S. McClintock Dr. Tempe, AZ  85283 Changing Hands Bookstore 480-730-0205 Thank you!

Friday, April 25, 2014 (Book Signing) 5:15p.m.-6:45p.m. Tilted Kilt Pub and Eatery 2 E. Jefferson Phoenix, AZ  85003 602-293-3888 Tilted Kilt Thank you Lenny!

Friday, April 25, 2014 (Book Signing) 7:30p.m.-9:30p.m. Urban Beans Coffee & Wine 3508 N. 7th St. Phoenix, AZ  85014 Thank you!

Sat-Sun, April 26-27, 2014 (Guest Speaker/Book Signing) 12:00p.m. Main StageApril 26th (Insider Secrets to Sex, Love & Attraction) Booth #1105 for Book Signings, April 26th and 27th ULTIMATE WOMEN’S EXPO – PHOENIX Phoenix Convention Center Phoenix, Arizona Thank you Jan Johnson!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014 (Collaboration with I NEVER MET A JERK I DIDN’T LIKE + Book Signing) SOLD OUT 8:00p.m. Whitefire Theatre 13500 Ventura Blvd Sherman Oaks, CA  Click here for TICKETS $20

Monday, June 16, 2014  PANELIST for THE GREAT LOVE DEBATE 7:30p.m.-9:00p.m. Laguna Beach Playhouse 606 Laguna Canyon Rd Laguna Beach, CA  92651 949-497-2787 Use CODE: JOC15 & SAVE $15.00 CLICK HERE & GET TICKETS for THE GREAT LOVE DEBATE TICKETS WILL SELL OUT FOR THIS EVENT.  If you’d like to be one of the lucky Bachelors or Single Ladies, Get your tickets ASAP! 200 of Southern California’s most dynamic SINGLE WOMEN.  200 of its most ELIGIBLE BACHELORS. Seated on opposite sides of one theater; brought together for one special night to answer one simple question:  WHY IS EVERYONE STILL SINGLE?


Thursday, June 19, 2014 




13625 Moorpark Rd

Sherman Oaks, CA  91423


The Oaks Tavern



Wednesday, July 16, 2014 

3 – 5p.m.


In Pike Place Market

1924 Post Alley

Seattle, WA  98101





Thursday, July 17, 2014 

 5 – 7p.m.


1013 Main St

Vancouver, WA  98660


Niche Wine & Art Bar WEBSITE



Saturday, July 19, 2014 

 11a.m. – 1p.m.


124 N. Hemlock St.

Cannon Beach, OR  97110


The Wine Shack WEBSITE

BOOK SIGNING UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH, In Ventura, CA – 2 Saturdays November 16th and 23rd, 2014 11a.m.-1p.m. 5654 Ralston St., Ventura, CA 93003 Get your autographed copy and 100% of profits will be donated to the UU Church.


SIO Secret Retreat

New Dates TBD


(Singles and Couples 18+ Welcome)

Email: for information.

Additional details will be provided the evening before! You will need to bring a picnic style sack lunch, sun screen, a Zip-lock bag with your name on it, a flashlight and bottled water. Come and open your mind.  Bond, laugh, release, challenge your conditioned mind.